- @Pegeen
Great insightful and practical advice on how to work with your inner critic. “The antidote to our self doubt isn’t thinking better than ourselves; it’s thinking bigger than ourselves.” Tara Mohr suggests letting our values guide our actions, not our self assessments.
This piece of writing made me think - a lot. I initially felt jarred by the author’s feelings about his grandparent’s deaths. And I have been examining my own relatives and friends who have died over the years to see if this author’s “theory” has any truth for myself. “Only someone that I used to love” is not a good description of my own dead. I take umbrage with the word “only”. It seems cold and dismissive. My “dead” seem much more alive within me, imprints of them carried in my cells, memories that I cherish that are awakened by certain smells, places, seasons, songs etc…
Important information and excellent advice.
In Shakespeare’s Sisters, Ramie Targoff “enthusiastically correct’s history’s misogyny and casts her subjects in the starring roles that they always deserved.”
Jillian Powell’s work is absolutely stunning. Paintings that I can stare at for long periods of time - “an antidote to the suffering in this world.” Focusing on beauty doesn’t deny the suffering, rather it helps to fill me with joy so I can give that to others throughout my day. Beauty, art and nature sustains my focus on all the really awe inspiring magnificence that life has to offer. And there is so much of it if we are willing to focus on it.
Kate Jarvik Birch proves that nothing is mundane! Gorgeous renderings of the everyday - love it!!!
LOVE this! Love Dame Iris Murdoch. “Murdoch argues that we “grow by looking.” “Rather than remaining imprisoned by a fixed picture of another person, we can loosen, if never break, the habit by finding the right words and images to see that person more fully.” Such wisdom, insight and advice. We really need this guidance and inspiration. Wonderful read, uplifting and hopeful.
I have no qualms with believing in the unseen, the departed or any other spiritual encounter. I have had quite a few myself when young and later in life when present to so many dying. It could be that I am open to it, willing to listen and hold their hands. I am an energy practitioner, worked in hospice and also on those that are well. We are energy, everything is - life vibrates, it speaks. Crossing over is a sacred passage. Most do look really peaceful at the end. A great book to read is “Dying To Be Me” by Anita Moorjani. You won’t be able to put this true story down - riveting. And reassuring!
Interesting but frustrating because there is still no definitive conclusion. Common sense does come in to play as the author notes; if what you are doing isn’t working, try something else.
So interesting. I feel for people who have no role model in their own upbringing in which to formulate their own parenting. I would then suggest going to the library and trying out different books. This way you do not get distracted by the “noise” of social media.
I really enjoyed this, found a lot of things to ponder. Also made me laugh.
Important subject, grief. However, I do not see grief as a “sneaky jerk”, quite the opposite. I welcome its message of release, of knowing how important my loss is to me and how helpful it is to let go and allow. I do not feel that there is a timeline to anyone’s grief, as it is as unique as a finger print. Each person must find their way and there are many; therapy, grief groups, a good friend or family member you deeply trust, your religious/spiritual community, walks in nature, trusting in your own self and process. It’s actually, for me, a very sacred time of deep, deep change. A time for radical self care, compassion and faith that you will eventually find yourself to the other side. It requires deep patience, kindness and love. It requires respect.
I LOVE this! What an incredible, creative and easy invitation to get to know someone. I am curious by nature and have always loved connecting with strangers. To let them know I “see” them. And I love hearing their stories. It can be brief but it’s always memorable, because connecting is very powerful.
Important information. I was one to follow fads such as low carb and intermittent fasting. And it did cause anxiety because any time control is used instead of intuition, there’s a fear factor. The few things I did keep in analyzing my eating patterns is to keep my choices as close to organic, whole and nutrient dense as possible. Lots of water and plenty of movement.
From my perspective, I think feeling victimized only takes the responsibility away from oneself. I’d rather focus on my own part in this scenario and learn from it.
Well written. I am not a royal watcher but I loved the series The Crown. Found the monarchy fascinating in its absurdity and out dated, expensive, pompous ways. Can this circus actually survive?
I’m not a fan of the hunger metaphor in this story to explain the sensation of separation. However, I can relate to the fear/loss of your adult child moving a plane ride’s distance from home base. I cherish my friendship with my adult children, love having them within driving range - it’s a gift. Yet if they need to leave to fulfill their own dreams, that is much more important than my own comfort. I trust I would rise to the occasion, accept my fear of flying, and embrace the unknown possible adventures that a new state and city could provide.
Wow, I had no idea of this current “trend”. This is, indeed, a very slippery slope.
Interesting - but not for long.
Truly amazing what one person created. Inspiring.
Kathy Giusti is the perfect example of how to move forward empowered - be your own advocate. What an amazing woman. Not only helping herself, but so many others in the process. Bravo!
I’m not shocked. Any high pressured establishment such as the White House, medical schools, college campuses, high level sales etc…are ripe for such “help” in coping with the demands of their jobs. Actually, we are a culture that has normalized the high paced life, so even alcohol and caffeine are over used. Coffee all day and several drinks at night to unwind. Then a sedative to counterbalance it all.
The New Look is an engaging, suspenseful and superbly acted limited series. I highly recommend it.
Never heard of Kacey Musgraves. Will have to give a listen.
I was a fan of Richard Lewis, especially on Curb. He had great chemistry with Larry David.
A ten! Really well written. Fantastic insights, questions and a menu of helpful solutions.
Interesting to see some facts on this matter instead of reactionary tweets.
Very interesting idea.
Loved this, the metaphors delightful.
Important information. Tragic, really, to be afraid to walk the streets. Self defense classes, pepper spray and a taser all sound empowering.