The last line is the crux of the matter - a woman denying her own desires. There’s no getting around the fact that a great relationship takes “work”. An affair can be a wake up call but it can also, over time, become the same “routine” as the old marriage. What’s exciting is discovering something new and if you apply that to yourself, you won’t go looking for it from another person. If your marriage is dull, then it needs to be discussed intelligently and compassionately. From there, you can come up with a menu of ideas in which to add intrigue and excitement. If your partner is disinterested and unenthused, then perhaps it’s time to exit. My advice is don’t put a bandaid on something that needs surgery!
The last line is the crux of the matter - a woman denying her own desires. There’s no getting around the fact that a great relationship takes “work”. An affair can be a wake up call but it can also, over time, become the same “routine” as the old marriage. What’s exciting is discovering something new and if you apply that to yourself, you won’t go looking for it from another person. If your marriage is dull, then it needs to be discussed intelligently and compassionately. From there, you can come up with a menu of ideas in which to add intrigue and excitement. If your partner is disinterested and unenthused, then perhaps it’s time to exit. My advice is don’t put a bandaid on something that needs surgery!