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You can’t be everything. Part of getting older is coming to terms with who we are rather than who we could have been.
This world is a scary place.
And having meaning and purpose in life are very important needs.
For reasons unknown to you, you will prove lucky and similarly, for reasons unknown to you you will be unhappy.
Fail fast
it makes it easier for other people to highlight what’s failing. By telling people I expect some things I’m working on to fail, people around me know they won’t offend me by flagging things that aren’t working. Instead, people can proactively join me in scanning for failures so we can address them faster.
"People are feeling that it is possible to take the good parts of a relationship and value and appreciate those, and realize that a stereotypical marital pact does not work for them so they need to do something different," she says.
What a rollercoaster
Here we are, though, engaged in business as usual—hoping, against all reason, that the watch will remind us that it’s time to get up.
💯!
Wow, this system sucks.
A sudden change in your financial situation can shake your sense of self to the core, not because it changes anything about who you fundamentally are, but because it changes what you can do.
Circumstances don’t change you, they show who you are.
Short and heartbreaking 💔
You can make a good decision and still not get the outcome you want, she adds. “You can only control one of those things — making the best decision with the information you have.